Coyote Counselling » techniques http://ramblings.easterndesert.org Finding our way through Trickster's footprints . . . Thu, 17 Mar 2011 01:56:43 +0000 en hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 90 Percent of my Time http://ramblings.easterndesert.org/2011/03/08/90-percent-of-my-time/ http://ramblings.easterndesert.org/2011/03/08/90-percent-of-my-time/#comments Tue, 08 Mar 2011 22:11:17 +0000 collinsd http://ramblings.easterndesert.org/?p=112 The saying “we spend 90% of our time on 10% of our students” came up again.

And my response was different this time.

Every other time I’ve been at a workshop, or a session, or a meeting and this statement came up I felt anger growing. It gave my frustration a place to hang. What have I been doing wasting so much time on so few? There certainly must be something be wrong if things are not more equal. Why should the minority demand such a large amount of my time and effort.

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